Because, I want to take my time.

Me to Dad : I’m Not Expecting a lot, I Just Want To Be Sure If that XYZ person is of my type.
I am looking for compatibility and long-term committment.

I have always heard my Family ,relatives and colleagues saying this to me that I’m smart, intelligent, attractive and people of my age are married (which is a main Moto behind tons of compliments), having baby or Atlist hitched with someone.
Who are you waiting for?
Do you need a prince to propose you as if you are some princess? And, only then you will date or like someone?

I have heard people ranting, taunting and literally forcing me to hook up with someone most of the time.

People ask me my relationship status and are baffled at the fact that I have been single for a really long time as well few said I’m in live-in and that I’d like to keep it that way.

First thing first, why is my relationship all of a sudden becomes an international concern? I’m sure we have better things to talk about Like JCB trolls, politics,latest movies and What are the takeaway from those?

My private life has been named private for some specific reason so you have and i like to keep it private for as long as I want to.

Coming back to the topic of remaining single, people often confuse it with me being more demanding , picky ,must be indulged into intercaste or inter Religion for that matter.

Let me tell you my friends
I am not picky, I just want to be with someone whose presence makes me feel HOME.
Whenever me & my squad discuss about some guy who they all would like to see me with, I have my long lists of reasons to not like him like He has no table manners , he doesn’t have dressing sense , he doesn’t respect older people or poor people and so on…..

My list frustrates them and they always says I will die single .
But, my love! for a God sake You tell me, When you go for shopping even if it’s grocery or outfit, don’t you see everything properly? Right from the material to the size to the quantity to the prize?

Just like that, I’m gonna spend my entire lifetime with that one person,where no exchange or return policy applicable . Shouldn’t I consider all my expectations before moving ahead ?

My dad always says no-one is perfect, neither I am.
I accept the fact but I want a companion for lifetime who will accept me with my all flaws and strengths.

People might feel that I am very selective or full of attitude but the real fact is I simply know what I deserve my love .
Maybe it is because of the books that I have read, the places I have been to ,the series I have watched or people I met till now that has made my thought process so much different.

You might feel like I expect too much but I am not. If I am going to marry someone I would like to be a 100% sure about it.
I don’t want a relation where a person will stay and leave whenever it is convenient for him,but I want someone who will stand by me through thick and thin throughout my lifetime.

It is my responsibility to provide all good life to myself not the poisonous one.
Honestly, I don’t have time for casual hookups and turn around to walk off when the topic of real commitment is put forth! Those are not men, those are merely guys who are afraid of commitment or responsibility .
Honestly, if people see this as a phase where I don’t have anyone, I have me and I have plenty of opportunities to give time to self growth,to earn money, to build my kingdom and to provide each and every happiness to my family.

So I’m ready to wait for the man of my dreams who makes my heart skip a beat or who will make my heart beats faster like anything because settling for anything lesser isn’t my cup of tea.

Of course, I won’t find a prince charming,But my man will be someone who will be better than all those things. I am alone by my choice ,because I want to take my time before I decide to hold someone’s hand for entire life.